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Sharing Custody with a Jerk
8 Steps to Become Gracefully Independent
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You’ve been divorced for a while. You’ve discovered that you are stronger and brighter than you thought. You’ve done your share of
forgiving. You’ve healed some. You’ve moved on. You’ve found work that is rewarding and pays the bills. Your children are doing well. A bit ruffled now and then, but nothing out of the ordinary. You’ve made new friends.
Life would be good, if it wasn’t for your ex.
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How many of the following describe your situation right now?
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 My ex is driving me nuts! Getting him/her to act responsibly is like
trying to nail jelly to the wall.- I’ve run out of legal options and I still can’t get him/her to respect our agreements.
- I’ve learned how to stand up for myself, but it doesn’t work with my ex.
He/she doesn’t give a darn about my boundaries. It’s like standing up to a bulldozer.
- I’m aggravating all my friends, because I can’t stop complaining. They just don’t get it!!!
- I don’t know what to tell my children when our plans get screwed up by my ex.
- I’m dead tired at the end of the day; between shuttling the kids, work and paying the
bills, there just isn’t enough of me left to have a life of my own.
- I’m always anxious about what he/she will say or do next that will disrupt our lives.
- I don’t understand how I could get caught up with such a person. I’m doing pretty well
with everybody else.
- I hate that I have to share my children with someone who just doesn’t care enough.
- I’m mad and I don’t know who to blame or ask for help any more.
- I’m stuck. No matter what I do, my life isn’t getting any easier.
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Not unlike many working single moms who share custody with a jerk, you may find that more than one of the above ring true for you. You’re definitely NOT alone ... and, you’re not
crazy!
Did you know that half the ‘complainers’ of this world are being bullied, but most don’t recognize it until you give it a name and describe the patterns.
This means half the ‘complainers’ you know will benefit from this web site, as will their partners, siblings, family, friends and work colleagues - so tell them about us. Thank you!
Are you being bullied? Find out here ...
Please, refrain from self-diagnosing your x-jerk, or yourself . The purpose of this quiz is simply to bring awareness to a situation you may be living and help you
recognize what’s really going on.
If you feel that it applies to you, we can help you design a plan and a strategy that will enable you to live your life by your own standards and with dignity, regardless of your life situation at the moment.
If you are sick and tired of fighting against your ex and desperate that he won’t change, then you are
perfectly placed to take the next step. The solution may not be what you think, but it is a simple one.
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NOW ...
... you can forget about the tug-of-war with your ex and
become independent and free, regardless of your ex’s
thoughtless acts!
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Our customized Life Coaching Programs
offer a simple 8 step solution that will enable you to stop fighting and start living your life so that it works FOR YOU. With a bit of patience, resolve and focused action, you will learn that you no longer need your ex’s cooperation to significantly improve your life AND your relationship with him.
Are you ready to get clear, get smart and get going?
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Start here:
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Next, please read the information on this web
site; there’s a lot of stuff here about Life Coaching,
the X-Jerk Files and tons of Resources for self-study and support, most of them are FREE. Simply click the links at the very top of every page to access the main sections of this web site.
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“Your web site is a Godsend. I think you're the only person in the world who really understands what happens when
you have to share custody with a jerk.
As a result of what I found and how to say it, people are starting to take me seriously for the first time, my lawyer is backtracking and the jerk (a power freak who's destroyed several people) is looking stressed for the first time in his life. I can't thank you enough." (Susan T, stbx)
for more of what clients are saying click here
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When you are ready, email me to set up a Welcome Session. Most of my coaching is done over the phone. This is not only convenient and time effective; I am trained to listen well and engage with you deeply. You can use your coupon to sign up for Teleclasses (Classes by Phone), Group Coaching or One-to-One Coaching with me. There is no expiration date.
If you need more help in getting ready, here’s a step-by-step plan to consider:
Getting Ready for Freedom
Wondering if coaching is right for you?
Read: Are You Ready for Coaching?
Or, take a quick quiz here
To check out our current Schedule of Classes by Phone as well as Coaching Formats and
Fees, Please go to CATALOG, or for more detail go to Programs.
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And, if you’d like to just say hi!, please do. We will do our best to respond promptly.
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